Man And Wife Plan Family Suicide: Kill 5 Kids and Themselves
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This story left me shocked and deeply saddened for those kids! La howla wala qowwitta illah billah!

LA man upset over job kills wife, 5 kids, himself
LOS ANGELES – A man fatally shot his wife, five young children and himself Tuesday after he faxed a note to a TV station claiming the couple had just been fired from their hospital jobs and together planned the killings as an escape for the whole family. “Why leave our children in someone else’s hands,” Ervin Lupoe wrote in a letter posted late Tuesday on the KABC-TV Web site.
The station called police after receiving the fax, and a police dispatch center also received a call from a man who stated, “I just returned home and my whole family’s been shot.”
Officers rushed to the home in Wilmington, a small community between the ports of Los Angeles and Long Beach, about 8:30 a.m., apparently within minutes of the killings. Officers could still smell the gunshot residue in the air.
Although the fax asserted that Ana Lupoe planning the killings of the whole family, police Lt. John Romero said Ervin Lupoe was the suspect. A revolver was found next to his body.
Ana Lupoe’s body was found in an upstairs bedroom with the bodies of the couple’s twin 2-year-old boys. The bodies of an 8-year-old girl and twin 5-year-old girls were found alongside Ervin Lupoe’s in another bedroom.
All were shot in the head, coroner’s Assistant Chief Ed Winter said.
It was the fifth mass death of a Southern California family by murder or suicide in a year. Police urged those facing tough economic times to get help rather than resort to violence.
“Today our worst fear was realized,” said Deputy Chief Kenneth Garner. “It’s just not a solution. There’s just so many ways you find alternatives to doing something so horrific and drastic as this.”
Ervin Lupoe removed three of the children from school about a week and a half ago, saying the family was moving to Kansas, the principal told KCAL-TV. Crescent Heights Elementary School Principal Cherise Pounders-Caver said nothing seemed to be troubling Lupoe at that time; she did not ask why the family was moving.
Kaiser Permanente Medical Center West Los Angeles released a statement confirming both Lupoe and his wife had worked there; both were medical technicians.
“We are deeply saddened to hear of the deaths of the Lupoe family,” it said in a statement.
In his letter, Ervin Lupoe claimed he and his wife both had been fired and that she suggested they kill themselves and their children, too. Police described the fax but did not release details.
The letter indicated that Lupoe and his wife had been under investigation for misrepresenting their employment to an outside agency in order to obtain childcare. He claimed that an administrator told the couple on Dec. 23: “You should not even had bothered to come to work today you should have blown your brains out.”
The couple complained to the human resources department and eventually were offered an apology but two days later the Lupoes were fired, according to the letter.
“They did nothing to the manager who stated such and did not attempt to assist us in the matter, knowing we have no job and five children under 8 years with no place to go. So here we are,” the note said.
At the bottom of the note, Lupoe wrote, “Oh lord, my God, is there no hope for a widow’s son?”
The Kaiser Permanente statement made no comment on the claims in Lupoe’s fax.
“It looks like they might have had grounds for his termination … it wasn’t that he was laid off as a result of the economic situation,” police Capt. Billy Hayes said.
Lupoe’s fax identified his children as Brittney, 8; 5-year-old twins Jaszmin and Jassely; and twins Benjamin and Christian, ages 2 years and 4 months.
Winter said the children were ages 2 to 8 but his agency would not release the names. He said that although the father’s family had been notified, relatives of the rest of the family had not been located.
The two-story home, much larger than its one-story neighbors, sits in front of a railroad track in Wilmington, a small community about 18 miles south of downtown. A children’s playset stood in the backyard.
On his Facebook page, Lupoe posted photographs of a daughter at karate class, and of a fancy tub and wash basins in an apparently remodeled bathroom.
Retired truck driver Jaime Solache, who lives a few doors down, said many of these newer, larger homes in the neighborhood had gone into foreclosure. The Lupoe house, which has a sign hanging above the driveway reading “The Lupoe’s Pad,” is about 6 years old, Solache said.
News of the killings sent shivers through the community, and several neighbors came to the yellow police tape to watch a steady procession of officials enter and leave the home.
“This area right here is quiet, calm,” said Armando Chacon, who lives one block north. “People like to sit out at weekends and barbecue. Other than this, no problems at all.”
In 1994, Lupoe was charged with carrying a concealed firearm but it was either dismissed or not prosecuted, court documents show.
Lupoe got a state license to work as a security guard in 1989 and a permit to carry a gun as a security guard in 1993 but both expired in 2007, said Russ Heimerich, a spokesman for the state Bureau of Security and Investigative Services.
Bob Pierce, a Long Beach attorney who represented the Lupoes in an auto accident, said the case did not involve any serious injuries and the family was expected to receive “well below $10,000,” he said.
Lupoe called Monday to find out when the money might be coming, Pierce said. Pierce told him that it might be another week or two “and he said ‘no problem.’”
The region has been shook by several recent mass murders.
On Dec. 24, a man dressed up as Santa Claus invaded a Christmas Eve party and killed his ex-wife and eight of her relatives. The man later killed himself.
In October, an unemployed financial manager despairing over extreme money problems shot and killed his wife, three children, mother-in-law and himself in their home in the Porter Ranch area of the San Fernando Valley.
In June, five members of a Turkish-American family, clad in black, were found dead in an upscale home in San Clemente. Investigators say it was apparently a suicide pact but the reason is a mystery.




hk Says: 29.01.09 at 12:50 am
i feel so sad for those kids… whole new beginnings cut short
times might be hard, but Allah reminds us:
“And do not kill your children out of fear of poverty; We shall provide for them and for you. Truly, the killing of them is a great sin.” (17:31)
Amatullah Says: 29.01.09 at 12:52 am
La hawla wa la quwwata ila billah…
I sometimes wonder how money can drive people to kill themselves and others, and then I realized that they do not have emaan, nor do they believe in the aakhirah, so this dunya IS all they have.
May Allah ta’ala protect us all. Ameen.
shirien Says: 29.01.09 at 2:02 am
subhanallah HK, that ayah fits soo perfectly here!
It’s so incredibly sad. What baffles me more is that this family lived in a two story house, had a car, was supposed to get a couple thousand dollars back in a few weeks from insurance agency, and yet they STILL killed not only themselves but their kids.
They worked in the health field, did they not think that there are thousands of other hospitals they could work for?
And what about that worker that told them “you shouldnt have even showed up today, you should have just shot yourself” (or something to that effect).
Just goes to show you that if you dont have something nice to say, stay quiet. That could have been the trigger (no pun intended) or the statement that gave them the idea to do such a horrific act!
Lazeena Says: 29.01.09 at 4:05 am
This is devastating that lack of money could drive a parent to do this subhanAllah.
Nihal Khan Says: 29.01.09 at 6:23 am
@HK
That’s the first thing that hit me.
The lack of Taqwa and Iman is why the world is in the state it currently is in.
zfnd Says: 29.01.09 at 8:14 am
Very disturbing. At the same time, it’s interesting that the news is now centered on a California mother of 8 (octuplets)!
shirien Says: 29.01.09 at 8:50 am
I just dont see how these people can shoot their children like that?
There was another story of this kid in Galveston, Texas of this 2-3 year old girl who was abused and murdered by her mom RIGHT AFTER the girl told her mom “I love you mommy.”
Subhanallah, there was no mercy in that mother’s heart? Hasbunallah wa na’mil wakeel!
The parents actually started beating and abusing the poor girl just for forgetting to say “please” and “yes sir”
Here is that story:
Jurors WEEP during “Baby Grace” trial
http://www.wsbtv.com/news/18581602/detail.html#-
Faisal Says: 30.01.09 at 5:26 am
Assalamou alaikum wa rahmatullah,
We were discussing this in class today, and this case which happened this morning:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20090129/wl_asia_afp/australiacrimebridge
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sunil Says: 31.01.09 at 12:00 am
people should not do things like that in any condition.its a very coward activity.bad situations could be with any one it doesnt mean that u have the right to take life off.